Burrel Lee Wilks III

Learn How To Identify The Signs Of Emotional Infidelity

John K. NJ says: "I'm struggling to cope with a major issue around infidelity. You see my wife met a guy recently at chamber of commerce dinner, and now she calls him all the time for 'advice' and even though they seem to just be friends, her whole tone, ... Read >

Ae you trying to fix the blame not the problem?

Why when things go wrong, do we usually point the finger at someone else? Stop looking for excuses for failure. Instead uncover one of the most fundamental secrets of personal success. Rob swore it was his wife's fault. If she hadn't nagged him into bu... Read >

Are you trying to make the wrong shoes fit?

Last week was an interesting one for me. I returned to L.A. after spending a week in Chicago, mulling over a couple of conversations I'd had with a client while I was there. I asked him if I could share his story with you, not using his real name and de... Read >

This husband is stalking his wife!

Each week Burrel Lee Wilks III writes a column in his free weekly newsletter--The Burrel Report--answering questions readers send in, and giving other readers a chance to share their point of view too. Over the next few weeks Burrel has agreed to share hi... Read >

How To Kill That Self-Destructive Monster Called Jealousy

Les came to me a few months ago, fearful that his wife was having an affair. They'd been having problems, and she was spending more and more time out of the house, apparently out with friends. Les didn't believe her for a second, and spent the time stewi... Read >

The Secret Of The Perfect Kiss

Set The Mood Set the mood by treating her like a queen. Take care of her every need so she can just lay back and let the day's stresses wash away. If it's your first date, just relax, take your time and make the entire date all about her (which means y... Read >

The Secret Of The Perfect Kiss- Part Two

Kiss Her Lips Without Touching Them (The Non-Kiss) Have you seen that movie called "Derailed" with Jennifer Aniston and Clive Owens, where he says he can kiss her lips without touching them? Well when women see that, about 80% of them hold their breat... Read >

Relationship advice you can't afford to miss.

Contrary to most conventional wisdom, it°s not your looks, your money, your job or even your luck, that's going to land you that great relationship, and keep it sizzling. No, the secret is all in your attitude. Here are my Six Essential Secrets For "... Read >

What Can You Do About Unwelcome Gang Influence?

There are many reasons why younsters--and that includes boys and an increasing number of girls--join gangs. When you see your child falling under this unwelcome gang influence, here are some essential steps: 1) Communicate, communicate, communicate. Yo... Read >

Stay away from the oxygen thieves!

People are either "givers" or "takers." It's as simple as that. They are one or the other. No room for gray. When I talk about giving and taking here, I'm not only talking about people who borrow or lend money, I'm talking about emotional giving and takin... Read >